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How to Call, A Man
Should I call him or not? This is an dilemma women are faced with all the time. Especially when your eager to receive that call from the special someone and it seems as if he is taking a long time. Should the woman really call men?
Women have been made to think that as a woman they should not be the one to make the first move when it comes to dating and even making that first call. They feel that if they make that first move or that first call the guy will think their “easy”, or “aggressive”. Sometimes women have to step up to your plate because the guy may be too shy. Here are some tips women can follow when they have decided to muster up the courage to call a man:
If he gives you his number than you should call. By giving you his number he has obviously giving you an invitation too. Wait a couple of days after your meeting to call. If you get his voicemail, leave a short message with your number so he can call you back. You don’t call him. If he doesn’t call back within a week, scratch him off your list.
Figure out what you are going to say if he does answer the phone. You don’t want to be fumbling around trying to find things to say. Sometimes men can be turned off by this especially if they are into strong woman.
Don’t dominate the conversation. Sometimes as women we have the tendency or babbling to much about ourselves or asking to many questions just to fill the conversation. Let him talk. Let him ask you about yourself. At the same time you don’t want to say to little. If you don’t talk much he won’t know enough about you to conclude if you are his type or not, or if he wants to ask you out.
Let him do most of the calling. After you have made the first call you should let him do the rest of the calling. This shows him that your life doesn’t revolve around him and that he is the one chasing you. The man always likes to be the pursuer.
You must remember that men and women are totally different. We view texting, calling and emailing way different from the way they do. If you make the mistake of calling him at the wrong time or too frequently this can get him agitated and it can turn him off.
If you just follow these few steps when making that call to either someone your dating or even your boyfriend you’ll be fine.
